I hate it too, this whole “perception is reality.” Why can’t my reality be everyone else’s reality. If everyone had the same perception, then we would live in a very boring world. However, perception can be skewed: Something that is completely innocuous in action, can seem quite the opposite to someone else. Is there aContinue reading “Perception”


I was actually going to write on something else, then I found an article in Psychology Today that really struck a chord. The article was written by Dr. James V. Cordova called Exchanging Ows. It is about how, in an intimate relationship with someone, we will do something or say something that causes our partnerContinue reading “Vulnerability”

Consider Others

Considering another is one way to show another person love, kindness and generosity but considering others is a difficult and seemingly unnatural action for a human to undertake. Just to be clear – self care is fine and necessary: this is not self centered. Self centered is where you don’t consider the other person. ThisContinue reading “Consider Others”